10 Things You Didn’t Know About Orgasm

Do you know the TED Talks? The annual conference on ideas held every February in Califorinia is fabulous. (If you don’t know it, go there and blow your mind.) The fine people at TED post the videos from the conference throughout the year, sharing these incredible insights and brilliant ideas with the world. Here’s one that I thought was perfect to post here. It’s well worth the 17 minutes of your time.

Enjoy.

Mary Roach: 10 things you didn’t know about orgasm

(And actually, I did know some of these things.)

Music To Fuck By: MTFB #4

Playful, cheeky sex is a wonderful tonic. Think summer sun, the snap of a towel on flesh and the need to use double entendres with wild abandon. You’ve got nowhere to be and plenty time on your hands. Pour a couple of margaritas and dance, reveling in your wanton desires and stumbling into each other for devilishly dirty, flirty sex.

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This song sums it up: breathy, danceable and salacious. I love the lyrics so much it may just become my summer theme song:

I’ve got a bad boy and that’s alright with me
His dirty laundry is nothing that I can’t keep clean
And when he needs an alibi
He can use me all night

What’s the fun in playing it safe?
I think I’d rather misbehave
Your way

I’m just a bad girl, that’s why we get along
Won’t make excuses for anything I’m doing wrong
I’ll pull the trigger in a flash
Watch out honey, step back

What’s the use in playing it safe?
Wouldn’t you rather misbehave?
My way

Oh baby show me the money my evil friend
Let’s go to Mexico, drink margaritas in sin
I’ll light a candle for good luck
Now come on baby let’s…

What’s the fun in playing it safe?
I think I’d rather misbehave
Your way

We’re simply mad
Simply mad

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Bittersweet: “Dirty Laundry”

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(Note: WordPress.com hosted sites don’t allow embedded Flash audio players. So, for now, I’ll have to link out to the song.)

I Am A Sexy Blogger

My friend Mina from At Longing’s End has done me the honor of giving me the Sexy Blogger Award. And now it’s my turn to make good on it.

RULES: You are to list 5 sexy things about yourself and pass it on to 4 other people.

Like 90% + of the female population, I struggle with positive body image. So to make this mission easier, and because I’ve called myself a sensation junkie in the past, I’m giving myself the theme of the 5 senses:

1. SMELL: My brain* – As far as I’m concerned, this is the sexiest organ by far. It’s what gives me creativity, imagination and lust. All quality components in being sexy. (*Wondering why my brain is a smell? I’m referencing “Dr. Penfield, I can smell burnt toast”)
2. SIGHT: My eyes – I wish I could show you how smoldering they are, while they also twinkle my mischievous, devilish streak. They say, “tie me up and surprise me, you know it’ll be fun!”
3. TOUCH: My breasts – I have reached orgasm by nipple stimulation alone. They give me (and my husband) so much pleasure, and they so love to be touched.
4. HEARING: My sounds – I am very expressive in my vocalizations while having sex. That’s not to say I’m always loud (though, at times our neighbors 3 doors down know when I’m having an orgasm). Rather, I have a natural vocal range that can be soft and pleading or growling in needy lust, and everything in between.
5. TASTE: My pussy – C’mon. Come closer. Just have a taste. You’ll love it so much, you’ll come back for seconds.

Now to name 4 bloggers I find sexy. Two are already out of contention (Mina, who tagged me and 13 Messages, whom she already tagged), but there are so many more out there. Here goes:

1. Sylvanus – Mina’s fiancé is one hell of a sexy  man. Body, brains, creativity and heart in one package. Oh, did I just say package? Well, his is the stuff of legends.
2. GirlFrisky – Again, brains, a gorgeous body and a visually creative eye. She’s definitely pushing all my hot buttons.
3. Thursday’s Child – Is pushing her own boundaries and re-programming her brain to see that she is beautiful and sexy.  Seems she’s the last to know, because reading her blog it’s easy for all of us to see how incredibly hot she is, inside and out.
4. Show Me Your Secrets – Here’s a man going through a sexual drought and is using his blog to explore fantasy and reality. Often introspective, he’s a writer who shows his vulnerability, his sexuality and a romantic streak a mile wide. This man deserves to have a lusty girlfriend (or two) to give him another outlet for his creativity.

Doggy Style

It’s hard not to laugh at this. I love the last vignette where she gets a spank on the ass. But, of course I would *squeak*