Congratulations Pleasurists!

4 11 2010

I’ve been a big fan of Pleasurists – the weekly round up of adult products and sex toy reviews – since it launched and am amazed that it is celebrating it’s 100th edition. When I am short on time, which I has been a lot lately, Pleasurists is on the top of my reading list to see what’s new.

Scarlet Lotus has done an expert job of corralling wild cats every week to provide a veritable compendium of opinion on the latest, but not always greatest, sex toys. I’m pleased to have had my reviews of Sinvention’s sinfully soft leather collar and cuffs and LELO INA featured as editors picks in the past. (You should go check them out.)

To celebrate their 100th edition, Pleasurists has wonderful selection of toys available to be won. You can win more than one thing, so, I’m entering to win a Crystal Delights Plug (Blue) from Virtually Adult because, lately, I am adoring plugs. I’m also entering to win a Fleshlight of my choice from PinkCherry because I’d like to give my man something new to try.

Now you should enter too. Here’s the scoop:


  • In order to count all entries must be made by November 17th @ 11:59pm Pacific Time.
  • Winners will be picked through random number generator which means it’s possible to win more than one item. The more ways you enter the better your chances are.
  • All winners must write a review of the product you win. Please do not let this stop you from entering, if you do not have a blog suitable for this I will happily host your review on my review blog.


Scarlet Lotus St. Syr

On to the products…



Anal Toys

Toys for Cocks

Lube, Massage Oil, Bath Stuff, & etc.


Adult Books/Games

Adult DVDs & Porn

Sex Furniture


Pleasurists adult product review round-up


Bad Bad Girl Has Gone Contest Crazy!

24 08 2009

If you follow Bad Bad Girl’s blog or her Twitter, then you’ll know she’s gone crazy with contests this month. Well, two contests, to be exact. You see, it’s her 3rd blogging anniversary, so she’s pulling out all the stops for her readers. She is one of the sex bloggers who inspired me to start a blog. And so, to her, I say thank you for your kinky goodness!

After her daily pleas to enter, I’ve finally found made the time to do so. But, really, she’s got some awesome prizes to give away. And since I recently won Mina and Sylvanus‘ contest, maybe I’m on a winning streak and should try for this one too?


a.k.a. The Big Bad Anniversary Contest-Drawings


How to get an entry (you can do both):

1. Post the details of the contest on your blog, saying something wonderful about me along with the list/links of prizes up for grabs.  You will need this paragraph (from ‘Drawings’ to the last prize).  (you must leave me a comment here so I know you did it)

2. Email me a picture wishing me a happy blog anniversary I will post it on my anniversary.  badbadgirlx (at) gmail (dot) com  (Nudity is greatly appreciated)

See, I’m easy.  (As if you didn’t know!!)  I MAY add a third way half way thru, stay tuned for that!

Here’s the things up for grabs and the fantastic vendors who are supplying some of the best, coolest and my favorite items.

Eden FantasysBandito, 1 oz Eros Light Love Lube, Cock and Ball Rings

My photo has been emailed! Thank you for being a great sex-blogging inspiration.


Grand Fucking Prize.

Here’s what you do:

Last month I set up a wishlist over at the and I posted it on this site.  That’s what you need to do.

1. Write a blog post about my contest with a link to this post.  (This is done if/when you post for the Drawings)  Yes, you gotta have a blog!  Protected blogs (including Facebook and myspace) will be excluded.

My suggestion is that you do a post which includes all the prizes in the Grand Fucking Prize to encourage more people to enter to get the prize bigger!

2. Go to and set up a wishlist.

a. Sign in/ Create an account.

b. Click around to all the things you want and add them to your wishlist.

look for this —> Add to wishlist

3. Write a second blog post talking about your wishlist over at eXtremeRestraints with a link.  Share it with your friends, maybe someone will buy you a gift!!!

4. Leave me a comment here with the link to your post about your wishlist.

For every wishlist, the prize gets bigger.  For example, if 38 people create a wishlist, then the prize is everything on this list up to the Trinity Pocket Rocket.  So you want to do this on your blog, and you want your friends to do this on thier blogs.  Did you see what is on the list for the 100th signup??  Yeah- a fucking machine!!

Don’t worry, if you just have no place to store the fucking machine, I’ll be HAPPY to take it off your hands.

Here’s what you can win as the entries increase:

Sign-ups Item Retail


Electrogasm $45.00


Ratan Cane $11.50


Trinity Silicone Butt Plug Kit $38.00


Trinity Pink Waterproof Rabbit $18.95


Orgasmic Vibrating Cock Ring $8.00


Luv Balls $26.00


The Sunset Plug $17.99


Strict Leather Flogger $165.00


Clit Enhance Pump Kit $114.00


Vibrating Silver Bullet $8.50


Vibrating Remote Control 7 speed egg $47.95


Leather Blindfold with Velcro Closure $16.50


Strict Leather Locking Thigh Cuffs $76.00


Trinity 7 Speed Vibrating Silicon Butt Plug $28.95


Delux Digital Power Box $130.00


Trinity Pocket Rocket Massager $14.00


Trinity Heart Throb Glass Dildo $28.00


The Love Pacifier $14.99


Strict Leather 4 Foot Leash $18.00


Vibrating Lipstick $26.00


Hitachi Magic Wand $49.95


Ball Gag Training System $15.00


Trinity Rosebud G Vibrator $22.50


Strict Leather Punishment Strap $37.50


Bondage Tape $7.95


Strict Leather Studded Paddle $48.00


Clit Clamp with Bell $10.00


Strict Leather Low Rise Leather Collar $48.00


The Love Seat $99.95


Premium Bondage Rope Nylon 10ft $12.00


Wartenburg Wheel $9.50


The Anal Hook $78.95


Tower of Pain $88.00


Strict Leather Forced Orgasm Belt $78.00


The Curvy Steel Dildo $95.00


The Power Box Fucking Machine $449.00

I know, I was pretty floored by this awesome prize too!  The whole prize package is worth around $2000!!!

So write it, click it, do it!!  Encourage your friends to do it.  I would LOVE for someone to win all this stuff.  eXtremeRestraints ships worldwide, in case you were wondering so do it.  I will announce the winner on September 13th.

Good luck.  Happy wishing!!

And there you have it! Simple. I had fun going through the eXtreme Restraints site and selecting the items for my wish list. So many delectable kinky things to be had! It made me realize that I need a sex toy budget. Or some really good friends 😉


A Salute to Masturbation May

31 05 2009

For a variety of reasons, I don’t get much time alone. The magical and elusive combination of time by myself AND an accommodating schedule means that I can get up to some serious “me” time. As May is Masturbation month, it deserved to be saluted with an all out solo-kink-fest. One fine afternoon a few weeks ago, I entertained myself with this:

Salute to M numbered

  1. Spreader bar with eye hooks at each end and one in the middle.
  2. Ankle cuffs. (They’re actually my wrist cuffs, but they’ll do ankle duty in a pinch.)
  3. Double-ended bolt snaps for attaching cuffs to spreader bar.
  4. Collar.
  5. Bamboo flat-backed back scratcher. Used like a crop, it produces a nice sting.
  6. Affectionately nicknamed Monster, it’s a “fleshlike” Doc Johnson dildo.
  7. Glass dildo with bumps that I love.
  8. Cockring.
  9. Bullet vibe for the cockring.
  10. Lube.
  11. Vibrating stainless innards that long-survived the jelly it was once attached to.
  12. Wooden clothespins (16) (not shown).

Looking at this photo and list, two things are apparent. I must have been incredibly horny to have brought out so many implements. And, I am in desperate need of some better quality toys (but that’s for another post).

It started with the thought that I would like to have my ankles restrained and attached to each end of the spreader bar while masturbating. I stripped down, put on my collar, attached the cuffs  to my ankles and then to the spreader bar. The feeling was so wonderful that before I even touched myself I was growing very moist.  With my knees far apart, the space between my legs was so obviously empty that I yearned to be filled.

I reached for the biggest toy I have to do the job. Nicknamed Monster, it is a rather girthy Doc Johnson dildo with balls and a suction cup. It’s made from some “fleshlike” substance that will likely rot my insides and make me glow radioactively. With the shaft barely hanging on to its balls and suction cup, this toy has seen better days. But when you’re in need, you’re in need.  I worked it into me and turned it so that the balls applied pressure to my clit while I was sitting. Rocking and grinding on it, ankles spread wide, my attentions turned to my breasts.

For some time I’d wanted to try clothespins on my breasts. This was the perfect opportunity to test my tolerances without risk to my pride if I aborted the attempt. I placed two on each areola, one on either side of my nipples, to very little discomfort. Intrigued, I continued until I had 4 clothespins in a row in lines on either side of my nipple on each breast, for a total of 16 clothespins. There was a stinging, gnawing discomfort, but nothing too painful at all. The sight and  feeling of my own handiwork while still rocking my hips over Monster, increased my  arousal. I was going to need more than old Doc Johnson could provide.

Loading the bullet vibe into the cockring and sliding it down the glass dildo, I was disappointed to discover that the battery was dead. No matter, I withdrew Monster and felt the cold hard texture of the glass easily entering me, the clit massager hit its target and felt great, even without vibration. This glass is a toy for repeated penetration allowing the friction of the bumps to massage and excite me as it grazes my G-spot. Lifting and tilting my hips from my seated position was a little challenging with my ankles held in place by the spreader bar, but I managed to get a good rhythm and was moaning loadly before long.

I decided that I wanted to prolong the session – after all, it was a rarity to have such delicious time with myself – and so I would pull back from climax for as long as I could. The clothespins on my breasts were starting to become rather uncomfortable. So, proud of how many I could take and how long I was able to keep them on, I braced myself for the inevitable “ow” moment  as I removed them. Red pinch marks covered my breasts and I rolled and pinched my nipples between my fingers to divert attention away from the sting, which served to excite me even more.

Over the previous months, I’d grown to love the stinging sensation from spanking and wanted to feel that sharpness and heat on my pussy. I drew the glass out of me and my clit ached for attention. Reaching for the bamboo back scratcher and, with knees held wide, I  lightly tapped between my legs with its flat back  in a cropping motion. Mmmm. Again, with a little more force and a flick in my wrist. This time a moan. I started thwacking my pussy and inner thighs over and over again, my heart pounding, breathing becoming more rapid as I tried not to squirm in my seat. The sensation was amazing and once again, I felt myself rising to orgasm.

Easing off again, my wicked mind craved more new experiences before allowing myself release. My pussy was wet, tingling and pulsing from the cropping and still, with my ankles held apart, felt so open and exposed. Noting that my tolerance for pain was high at that moment (I still maintain that I am not a pain slut) I reached for the clothespins again. This time, I placed 4 on each side of my labia and one on my clitoral hood. To my surprise, it felt oddly comfortable, the pressure and faint pinch pleasing, the weight and pulling sending tingling sensations up and down my pussy.

The way the pins were arranged allowed me to still run my fingers over my inner folds and rub the underside of my clit. As I slowly fingered myself back to heightened arousal, the ends of the clothespins clicked against each other, the one on my hood providing extra pleasure as the fastener knocked against my the top of my clit.

It was time to finish with gusto. I grabbed the slender metal vibe, applied a dollop of lube to the tip, stood, inserted it into my ass and turned it on to the medium setting. Sitting back down, the vibrations set my body alight, producing a deep gutteral resonance. I grabbed the nubby glass dildo again, slid the cockring off, and leaning back glided it into my needy pussy. Its glass base tapped the clothespins with each thrust. I angled it upwards so the bumps would add maximum pleasure to my G-spot and soon I was moaning loudly, gyrating on the vibe in my ass and rubbing my clit with my other hand. Not able to hold back any longer, I cried out loudly as my ogasm hit me with incredible force. My body tensed as I gushed and shook with wave after wave of pleasure, eyes rolled back in my head, ankles straining for freedom, spreader bar crashing against the hardwood floor.

As I came back to earth, I removed the glass dildo, the vibrator and the clothespins. Bending over in my chair, still trembling with aftershocks, I finally released my ankles from their restraints and was able to close my knees again. I sighed deeply and contentedly, gazing around at the toys of my pleasure knowing that this time of self-exploration was special. What I learned about my body, my tolerances and my pleasure dispelled fears and gave me the confidence to know what I will want to try again. I will be more prepared, eager and willing to continue to push the boundaries with my husband. Solo is good, but two is better.

(Thanks to Vixen and Sugasm for  including this post in Sugasm #167.) Wish List Giveaway

29 04 2009

I LOVE toys. But sadly, they don’t love my budget. And, as I haven’t started reviewing as yet (Hello! Online toy companies: contact me ravenquince at gmail dot com), contests are a good way for me to try to add to my rather tiny collection.

150x150_4gingeraImagine my delight when I spotted the ultimate contest on win a $1,000 sex toy wish list from  I sat down with my husband to get his input – after all, he has a vested interest in what’s in our toy box – and discussed how we’d like to build our collection to explore some new orgasmic sensations. So here it is, a sex toy wish list with both of us in mind.

  • Lelo Gigi Deep Rose $107.49  I have heard from so many people that this is the best G-spot vibrator on the market. Add to that Lelo’s great quality and the fact it’s rechargeable, then this HAS to be on my wish list.
  • Hitachi Magic Wand $58.19  The gold standard of good strong clitoral vibes that no self-respecting toy box should be without.
  • Berman Center Intimate Accessories Cleopatra $78.49  This wireless remote control vibrating egg plays to so many of my turn ons: teasing, submission and public play.  The thought of being out with my husband and him controlling how much pleasure I receive makes me rank this toy very high on my list.
  • Fleur-de-Lis Seduction Purple by Evolved $30.19 This one reminds me of my very first vibrator, so smooth and with a gentle fit (it’s waterproof too). We bought one for a friend recently and it was beautiful. I’d love to have it in my collection.
  • Curve Violet by Fun Factory $70.99 I can’t wait to get G-spot stimulation with this gorgeous dildo. I mean, just LOOK at it! What an amazing shape, what smooth lines, what an elegant style.
  • Charmer Purple Haze byTantus $41.49 This bad boy looks ready for a good time. If those bumps and ridges don’t send me over the edge, I’m sure the vibrations will.
  • Bendybeads Black by Fun Factory $49.49 Ah, anal beads. How I’ve wanted to use you and abuse you. Like the Curve, this toy is so pretty, it would make one helluva swizzle stick!
  • The Ryder Silicone Butt Plug – Purple by Tantus $36.19 I like anal. No, I really like anal. I’m surprised that I’ve gone this long without ever having used a butt plug. So, after perusing a multitude, I thought this one fit the bill for a starter.
  • Red Ripple Glass Butt Plug $28.49 This one is so pretty and more naturally shaped. Plus I love how temperature becomes part of the play with glass. Mmmm.
  • Euphoria Enhanced Male G Spot Stimuator $32.49 Even though this looks like a new logo for Prince, I think this holds great promise. My husband is interested in trying out some anal toys, and this should be a great place to start.
  • Under the Bed Restraints by Sportsheets $55.89 I’ve heard great things about these restraints. I love to be tied down, but our bed doesn’t have a headboard or footboard, so anchor points are challenging. These would be the answer.
  • Fantasy Swing $120.19 Who wouldn’t want a swing? Really, I’ve never known anyone who didn’t want to have one of these.
  • Fetish Fantasy Ultra Position Master $58.49 Until I can have a dedicated playroom outfitted with Liberator gear, this looks like a good portable alternative.  Simply deflate and your room looks vanilla when relatives come to visit.
  • Clover Nipple Clamps $27.19 They’re so pretty! I’ve never worn nipple clamps but can tolerate quite a bit. I’d love to give this a try!
  • Astroglide 2.5 oz Strawberry $16.89 Ever since my husband got a mouth full of foul tasting lube, we’ve wanted to try something that tastes better than evil. Strawberry is a good start.


I think I should win based on how close to $1000 I got! Whatever way it happens, I do hope that I win. If so, I’ll need to buy a storage trunk! Want to enter too? Here’s how.